Saturday, June 09, 2007

Nothing short of .'*'.LOVE.'*'.

First up:

心理测验

你认为吹恐怖的地点是;
(The most fearsome place to you is)：


1。 坟地
(Cemetary)
2。 停尸房
(Mortuary)
3。 火葬场
(Crematorium)
4。 鬼屋
(Huanted house)
5。 荒山刑场
(Execution ground based in a deserted mountainous region)
6。 废弃的厕所
(Abandoned toilet)
7。 人体试验室
(Laboratory for experimental of humans)



*.===.*.===.*
.===.*.===.*.===.*
.===.*.===.*.===.*.===.*.===.*



答案
( Interpretations) ：


1。 尊重所爱的人
( You respect your lover)
2。 极为依赖恋人
( You are highly dependent on your other half)
3。 情圣，野心很大
( Casanova! Ambitious lover)
4。 不太成熟，爱吃醋
( Immature and easily jealous O.o)
5。 色情狂
( Sex manic!)
6。 感情专一
( Faithful lover)
7。 超级不专一
( Super duper unfaithful lover O.o)

=> What type are you ???



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Anyway, On our 29th Monthnivarsary, Mr. Soh gave me a bookmark with this poem:


I'll Never love Anyone...
....the Way I Love You

"
In loving you, I have experienced
the happiness, the hurt,
the feeling of forever,
the need to be with you and love you.

It's all here inside of me.
It's you I always think about,

It's you I always miss,
and it will always be you,
because you are the one I love.

To me, love means forever.
No one will ever take your place
or know me as you do.

You always know what I'm thinking
and what I'm feeling deep down.

I'll never love anyone
the way I love you.
"
- Geralynne Dodgen
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Well, just not long after, a guy fren of mine sent me this sms:





现在的男人不能爱，


表现老实心理坏。


说是爱你一辈子，


其实爱你一阵子。


怀里抱着心爱的，


心里想着另外的。


花花世界花花心，


男人个个没良心。


Er...I feel puzzled by this sms leh...

Think he is tryin to play a joke on guys..hohoho

~~~

"The face, not the body, attracts a mate"




...It appears that the opposite sex is much more interested in your face than your bulging biceps or elegant figure, especially if you're a man....

~~~


"Best dressed women have babies on their mind"




...Though not in the same class as the obvious physical cues... , it is the first evidence that women openly advertise their fertility.





Interestingly, all the women in the study group described themselves as being in committed relationships with men.





So why go to the trouble of dressing up?
Perhaps to attract other men.
(Really meh?)





"Women with high fertility tend to feel attracted to men other than their primary partners," says Haselton.


~~~
And finally,
~~~


"Six ways to woo your lover"



1. EXPERIENCE FEAR TOGETHER

A dramatic setting can kick-start your love life.




...all because of a strong connection between anxiety, arousal and attraction.




In the "shaky bridge study" ...men who met a woman on a high, rickety bridge found the encounter sexier and more romantic than those who met her on a low, stable one.


2. SHARE A JOKE

An experience that makes you laugh creates feelings of closeness between strangers.




3. GET THE SOUNDTRACK RIGHT

Women evaluating photos of men rated them more attractive while listening to soft-rock music, compared with avant-garde jazz or no music at all.



4. GAZE INTO THEIR EYES

Any flirt knows that making eye contact is an emotionally loaded act.



5. LET YOUR BODY DO THE TALKING

There are a number of actions that signal "I like you" to another person. Adopting an open posture (no folded arms), and mirroring another's posture help create a feeling of affinity.



(Heh...Well well, the most politically correct answer. )




And if all else fails...




USE LOVE POTIONS?



...hormone oxytocin can make people trust you - an important part of any relationship -
though there's no evidence yet to suggest it can make someone fall in love.



~ Better not try this, cuz it is found in nasal sprays!






But no worries. There's always a safer alternative:



...phenylethylamine (PEA), is tagged the "love molecule" because it induces feelings of excitement and apprehension.



~found in chocolate and it, too, is linked to the feel-good effects of exercise ^^




All articles taken from newscientist.com
Tata~

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